Have you ever thought about the fact that some of them might not have been 'your type'? Have a look at the spot and take a minute to reflect. You can be relaxed and enjoy your time with your new mate but just use a condom. I don't think you want to think about all those not-charming-at-all expartneres while you're trying to enjoy your time together.. Or do you?
Source: Designers Against AIDS website