I just met a friend and we talked about sex.
It's common that nowadays young people have sex even when they're not married and although here in Indonesia that issue is a taboo, that's not stopping people to do what they want. That's life, people decide what are they going to do for themselves. The concern is... what if they choose to not use condoms? That can be way too risky.
It's common that nowadays young people have sex even when they're not married and although here in Indonesia that issue is a taboo, that's not stopping people to do what they want. That's life, people decide what are they going to do for themselves. The concern is... what if they choose to not use condoms? That can be way too risky.
I have friends whose life has turned upside down after they chose not to use condoms. No sexual transmitted disease thankfully, but it turned out they got pregnant. The stories ended well in these cases actually: the girls got married soon after they found out they were having baby. But what if it doesn't work out? My friends usually used condoms but for once they decided to give it a try to not even think about condoms, so... here they are now. Having a baby which they didn't really plan for.
What I'm trying to say is: don't risk your life for something that you can't even imagine would happen to you, even when people say "take a risk on your life" I guarantee the 'no condom sex' should not be part of that risk-taking. If you're not ready for something bigger, then have safe sex. Here's my advice: whenever in doubt, use a condom.
What I'm trying to say is: don't risk your life for something that you can't even imagine would happen to you, even when people say "take a risk on your life" I guarantee the 'no condom sex' should not be part of that risk-taking. If you're not ready for something bigger, then have safe sex. Here's my advice: whenever in doubt, use a condom.
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