There has always been an established mythos in the bedroom that, simply because male orgasms have sadly long been prioritized over females ones, every man finds every intercourse that takes place utterly ecstatic. It’s always the woman who is left looking askance and disappointed as they are being pounded away at, while the guy is gleefully grinning simply because our dick is inside something.

Well, *prepare-to-have-your-mind-blown voice*... guess what? That’s not true. We are often just as equally disappointed, pounding away while looking askance, desperate for the lady we are with to tell us they’re too tired to continue, so we can mercifully roll over without getting off and pass the fuck out.

There are so many things guys hate about having sex. Don’t believe me? That’s fine, because I just made a whole list to convince you otherwise.

The science of HIV is constantly evolving and what we knew (or thought we knew) just a few years ago is either incorrect, incomplete or in need of an upgrade. Every year we learn more about the virus and research keeps giving us new tools to prevent, test and treat it.

A HIV diagnosis was once a death sentence, but that is no longer the case for those of us who stay healthy after becoming HIV+. In fact, the average HIV-positive person today is expected to live to be nearly 80, roughly on par with the general population. As more and more people are reaching the century mark, here's a list of the best things you can do — besides adhering to your medication regimen — that'll help you have a long, healthy life.​

Remember how the Indonesian government was planning to ban Grindr as one of the gay online dating apps? And how we think their decision is not very thoughtful?

According to a recent study, Grindr actually was found to be a very effective way to give out HIV self-test kits to men at risk of infection and to reduce the spread of HIV this way.

Did you know that the Indonesian government are planning to ban gay dating applications? The ban, announced on Friday, is reportedly being proposed after a paedophilia ring used the app as part of its operation.

During a raid on the ring, which allegedly forced teenage boys into sex work, Grindr was apparently discovered on the iPad of one of the perpetrators, leading police to believe that the app was involved.