Sometimes a little switch-up in a sex position can make a huge difference. Example? Next time you're in missionary, slide your legs down straight between his and press them together (you're welcome.) Here are some other ways to tweak the entry angle so you can embrace all those new feels.
1. Not introducing me to your roommates. When we walk in the door of your apartment to find your two roommates on the couch playing Mario Kart, don’t be weird. We are all grown-ups here. Some of us have probably even had sex before. A simple "Hey, guys, this is [insert my name here]" before we head to your room will suffice. We don’t need to stop and chat. But you saying hi to them without introducing me? Weird. You ignoring them altogether and hustling me into your room like some kind of sex ghost that only you can see? Also weird. Don’t make this awkward before we’ve even gotten to the sex.
Being self-conscious can be bad during normal situations- but being self-conscious during sex is the worst. You want to look sexy and confident, but you also want to be comfortable and have a good time. Sometimes, these things can contradict each other. How can you look sexy when you feel like you don’t really know what you’re doing? This is especially true when you’re giving a dude a blowjob, which puts all of the pressure on you. The expectations are so high! Blowjobs are a hard task on their own, so the added pressure of looking good while doing it is not something that girls look forward too.
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