Being self-conscious can be bad during normal situations- but being self-conscious during sex is the worst. You want to look sexy and confident, but you also want to be comfortable and have a good time. Sometimes, these things can contradict each other. How can you look sexy when you feel like you don’t really know what you’re doing? This is especially true when you’re giving a dude a blowjob, which puts all of the pressure on you. The expectations are so high! Blowjobs are a hard task on their own, so the added pressure of looking good while doing it is not something that girls look forward too.
Someone just wrote, “I just gave my first bj but I don’t think it was that great (even though my boyfriend said it was). How can I do it better and be sexier while doing it?”
It’s really important to know that being comfortable should be your number one priority. So, If you ever feel a little bad about the situation, or uncomfortable giving a blow job, you should definitely stop. Another thing to realize is that most girls are way too hard on themselves! You are probably doing a good job, or else the guy would ask you to stop. Blowjobs -and sex in general- seem really complicated, but they get easier as you learn to be more comfortable and open-minded with it. Here's some advice on how to look sexier while giving a blowjob or having sex.
1. Look him in the eyes
You will definitely blow his mind.
2. It's all about the boobs
Simply because guys love to see them.
3. Be into it
Attitude is so important and the sexiest thing about giving a blowjob is when you are totally and really into it.
4. Smile
Tease him, smile and don't be in a rush.
5. Take time to figure it out
You'll get to know what he likes most because believe me, when he likes it you'll be the sexiest girl he knows.
6. Change it up
Use some variations that are be fun and potentially addictive.
So... dare to give it a try?
It’s really important to know that being comfortable should be your number one priority. So, If you ever feel a little bad about the situation, or uncomfortable giving a blow job, you should definitely stop. Another thing to realize is that most girls are way too hard on themselves! You are probably doing a good job, or else the guy would ask you to stop. Blowjobs -and sex in general- seem really complicated, but they get easier as you learn to be more comfortable and open-minded with it. Here's some advice on how to look sexier while giving a blowjob or having sex.
1. Look him in the eyes
You will definitely blow his mind.
2. It's all about the boobs
Simply because guys love to see them.
3. Be into it
Attitude is so important and the sexiest thing about giving a blowjob is when you are totally and really into it.
4. Smile
Tease him, smile and don't be in a rush.
5. Take time to figure it out
You'll get to know what he likes most because believe me, when he likes it you'll be the sexiest girl he knows.
6. Change it up
Use some variations that are be fun and potentially addictive.
So... dare to give it a try?
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